SEX! Now that I have your attention, I have some questions.

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Re: SEX! Now that I have your attention, I have some questions.

@annie_bibi

romance can be having an icecream together.
romance can be her sending you a surprise gift or giving you a surprise call to cheer you up.
it can be sharing your stories and discussing people and gossiping together:p
it can be praising her for something or viceversa!

that should be enough romance for now:)
and be glad you got a sweet girl there!
and dont ask for more:p

@aurchaepiyo

You wanted a Pakistani blushing bride, so you got one. That’s the way many are. That’s the cultural ideal. Girls aren’t supposed to “know” anything – if she knows about sex – real sex – why, then how would she have gotten this information? She would be considered be-huda even to know such things, much less to talk about them. Sweet and innocent is what you asked for, right? Really, the conversations between girls and guys in Pakistan are at about what is typical at middle school level in the west. People in Pakistan and India get their concepts of romance and relationships from Bollywood. Think about the heroines and the romances of these movies: that’s how Pakistani girls think they should behave. Also, remember she may not have had a lot of opportunity to speak with non-family guys and therefore is not completely comfortable talking about intimate things with you. You are used to Australian gender dynamics. You don’t get that with Pakistani girls.

And anyway, her job is to keep you panting and impatient, and it seems to be working.

@Enigmatic

I take my comment back! The title did give those vibes but I hadn’t read your posts. You seem a nice guy. And I think your fiancee is a sweet person too. Just take it slowly, she’d open up with time once she gets to that trust level

@hareem01

That’s so sweet.

Please ignore my previous comment about sex being on your mind and stuff…I should’ve read your posts before commenting.

Thank you both for your kind words. I don’t blame either of you. I guess “SEX” wasn’t the greatest of ideas to use as a title LOL

And yeah, I just need to take it slow and relax She is a wonderful person and I should be acting so greedy and trying to jump the gun.