SEX! Now that I have your attention, I have some questions.

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Re: SEX! Now that I have your attention, I have some questions.

@Mirch

She is being romantic by blushing. You should be proud that she is this way. Some people will give an eye and a tooth to find a girl like her, in this day and age

@annie_bibi

romance can be having an icecream together.
romance can be her sending you a surprise gift or giving you a surprise call to cheer you up.
it can be sharing your stories and discussing people and gossiping together:p
it can be praising her for something or viceversa!

that should be enough romance for now:)
and be glad you got a sweet girl there!
and dont ask for more:p

@aurchaepiyo

You wanted a Pakistani blushing bride, so you got one. That’s the way many are. That’s the cultural ideal. Girls aren’t supposed to “know” anything – if she knows about sex – real sex – why, then how would she have gotten this information? She would be considered be-huda even to know such things, much less to talk about them. Sweet and innocent is what you asked for, right? Really, the conversations between girls and guys in Pakistan are at about what is typical at middle school level in the west. People in Pakistan and India get their concepts of romance and relationships from Bollywood. Think about the heroines and the romances of these movies: that’s how Pakistani girls think they should behave. Also, remember she may not have had a lot of opportunity to speak with non-family guys and therefore is not completely comfortable talking about intimate things with you. You are used to Australian gender dynamics. You don’t get that with Pakistani girls.

And anyway, her job is to keep you panting and impatient, and it seems to be working.

Again its not about sex. I’m not trying to get her to tell me her turn off’s or on’s or anything of that nature.

I certainly hope she dosen’t get concept of romance from bollywood, particulary nowadays.

She is a wonderful girl. I was just wondering why she often held back expressing her emotions. She is affectionate as I have stated earlier, but she does also tend to hold back. I guess she is just used to a different pace than I am, whether that be a cultural teaching or a personal response, and I should meet her halfway. It’s the right thing to do.