Sex in Islam

Straight_up · February 12, 2009, 5:23am

May be someone more knowledgable can shed some light on this because thus far everything I’ve read emphasizes against it.

Fbi786 · February 12, 2009, 5:24am

oh my god ...

ghusal is Having a shower / bathing after the deed ...to cleansify / purify yourself - body.

but not just an ordinary two minuite dip under the shower ..

but according to a certain method ...

the easiest way wud be .. to do wudu and add teh things in between which are obligatory to do ..

obligatory .. am sure everyone knows how to do the obligatory bath ... so yeh

:D

Fbi786 · February 12, 2009, 5:26am

hmm ..i ll talk on this a lil later on and see what other ppl have to say .. but yeh i do know teh answer ..

angel21 · February 12, 2009, 5:33am

thanx my urdu's nawt dat great =S

hareem01 · February 12, 2009, 10:13am

it's makruh (disliked) but some scholars regard it as haram due to it's possible connection to causing mouth cancer.

righteous · February 12, 2009, 10:43am

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What about kinky stuff...like bondage and S&M and role playing...

hareem01 · February 12, 2009, 10:53am

simple role playing should be fine but s&m and bondage are not allowed because of the elements of humiliation and self harm. We've been ordered in Qur'an to approach our sopouse with honour and dignity.

diwana · February 14, 2009, 1:51am

Its the HPV (virus) which is present in people with multiple past relations and not the act which can cause cancer.

Numb · February 14, 2009, 11:16am

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and have you all fun about talking such an intersting and really really very impotant topic?

diwana · February 14, 2009, 4:59pm

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Ummmmm. Whats the point?

Just kidding.

I must say beyond few simple logical rules, there is absolutely no business of any person to know or discuss what and how it happens behind closed door between husband and wife.

(Not sure but heard even angels leave them alone. I can be dead wrong here)

So discussing those rules is perfectly OK.

hareem01 · February 14, 2009, 6:53pm

Yes it is a very very important and interesting topic....important and interesting enough for you to write a post in it.

Numb · February 14, 2009, 8:17pm

yeah, I contributed very much to the topic...do you have no other business?

hareem01 · February 14, 2009, 8:21pm

No one is forcing you to contribute in this thread.

Numb · February 14, 2009, 8:28pm

no one is forcing you to reply

hareem01 · February 14, 2009, 10:23pm

Of course no one is forcing me to post here...what's your point?

Numb · February 15, 2009, 10:04am

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what's your point?

njgal · February 17, 2009, 5:57pm

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^ OMG children! Lets help this girl out!

njgal · February 17, 2009, 5:59pm

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ASA
Can someone knowledgeable confirm that I got all this right? I have to meet her tonight.

1. Initiation: Both partners can initiate. Acting kindly towards each other, smiling, holding hands, taking care of each other, gentleness is encouraged.

2. Refusal: Both partners can refuse (but it is better not to) It is the right of both partners in marriage to have sexual relations

The only things that are totally prohibited in Islam are anal sex and intercourse during periods (also bleeding after childbirth) and during fasting. Everything else is allowed. There are no restrictions on timing of the day, positions.

4. Birth Control: I did not find any hadiths FOR using birth control. Most imams say that it is permissible though

It is mandatory that you have Ghusl after intercourse. You have to make niyyat. You don’t have to right after but before you go about your chores.

hareem01 · February 17, 2009, 6:06pm

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^Go ahead, inshaAllah....may Allah reward you for helping her.

njgal · February 17, 2009, 6:12pm

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Thanks hareem - I usually just help with homework and resumes. This is out of my league