Re: Sex in a strained marriage
There was a movie about a troubled marraige in which husband was a nervous wreck, with lots of emotional problems and anger management issues. Wife later runs away with 2 kids and a woman asks her why she stayed for so long and she answers, the sex was good.
You cant get more honest then that.
There was a movie about a troubled marraige in which husband was a nervous wreck, with lots of emotional problems and anger management issues. Wife later runs away with 2 kids and a woman asks her why she stayed for so long and she answers, the sex was good.
Wife has a friend who had a stormy marriage - and she openly admitted that even though she didnt like her husband, she stayed with him because of the size of his 'danda' (her words!)
Re: Sex in a strained marriage
If sleeping with your husband is that bad, then you should not be with him. I agree that this is not rape- BUT, having to sleep with someone you have no feelings for or resent can be Horrible, so if this is the case...then why go through with it? Sex is supposed to be pleasurable, an act between two consensual partners who want it to take place.
I know a desi woman who stayed in a bad marriage because of pressure and financial reasons, and she hated sleeping with a man who did not treat her well...it really took its toll on her, so I understand its difficult. Like I said, if you have the option of leaving (if thats REALLY want you want and attempts at fixing your relation have failed), then do it.