Nina and Blackforest are right!
But I have a question though... if you feel like getting out of this relationship and that spark has vanished as well. How can you sleep with that person/hubby? I mean to have a kid intercourse is necessay and without feelings is a rape. (atleast to me)
oh please!! without feelings it's rape? gosh girls like you can truly defame a guy in legal marriage.
Honey anything thats FORCED upon you AGAINST your wishes EVEN AFTER telling to STOP - is rape.
Rape is a big deal. Please choose your words wisely.
Just because your hubby wants to be cozy does not mean he is attacking you. Please spare him from these cruel and absolutely low mentality words.