Sex from islamic prospective

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…A friend of mine is in some situation and wanted to know something like this…

Lets say you fall in love with a girl and had sex with her…but u get married to the same girl…and u never had sexual relationship with any other girl…would u goto hell cuz you had sex before marriage? Or would u goto hell if you had sex with her and had wrong intentions and wouldnt marry the girl?

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It all comes down to if you have repented after what you have done. Once repented with pure intentions, you are not going to get punished by Allah:swt: That’s His promise and He does not break His promise… The only condition is that the person repents with the full concious of guilty and with the intention of not doing it again.

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That’s the ticket…

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Asslam-U-Alikum
Adding to with two other brothers said, if the girl gets pergnant then they both can't marry until the child is delivered and they do some serious repentence. Once two non-meharam commit zina(adultery), undoubtly a major sin, but later they regret for it or the girl gets pergnant and they want to marry each other.

These conditions need to be applied
1- Stay away from each other and shouldn't any kind of link
2- Sincere repentence
3- Wait for the baby's delievery

Wallhuaalam(Allah knows best)!

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Yeah but in furqan’s example, if you marry the girl u commit zinna with (and noone else) that’s not really much of a challenge or difficult to repent since ur already married naaaaaaaa..

I htink the challenge/difficulty would be just not knowing what happens next.. i know one can have intentions of marrying but then on ur way to the wedding but you die w/o ever having repented.. i think thats wayy too easy coz anyone can say “oh i intend to marry this person, so i can have sex wit em”.. :frowning:

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Assalam-U-Alikum

Form your nick, i'm assuming you're a sister! Sister, it doesn't matter if you marry the same person later on, initially they both commit adultery, hence they're adulterer and adulterss respectively. And their marriage wouldn't be Islamic and they can't be considered Muslims because there's no place for adulterer and adulterss in Islam unless they do some sincere repentence because Allah says in Quran (interpretation of the meaning):
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The adulterer — fornicator marries not but an adulteress — fornicatress or a Mushrikah; and the adulteress –fornicatress, none marries her except an adulterer — fornicater or a Mushrik [and that means that the man who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan or idolatress) or a prostitute, then surely, he is either an adulterer — fornicator, or a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater). And the woman who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater) or an adulterer — fornicator, then she is either a prostitute or a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan, or idolatress)]. Such a thing is forbidden to the believers (of Islamic Monotheism) *[al-Noor 24:3]*
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Once a person commit a sin but regrets of his/her actions. S/he need not despair from Allah's mercy because Allah not only promised to forgive all the sins but He also said He'll trun them into good deeds.

Allah says in Quran (interpretation of the meaning):
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Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful. **And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds; then verily, he repents towards Allaah with true repentance *[al-Furqaan 25:70-71]*
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At another place Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
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Say: Oh my servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the mercy of Allaah, for Allaah forgives all sins; for He is oft-forgiving, most merciful. [Surah 39,Verse 53]
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May Allah guide us on to the straight path and accept our Ibadah and forgive our sins...Ameen
Asslam-U-Alikum

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they can't be considered Muslims
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O Allah kei bandei! this is incorrect. True there is no place of adultery in Islam, but an adulterer doesn't automatically become a non-Muslim. Just wanted to make the correction.

And regarding the original question... I agree that both of them committed adultery originally. I am not sure if repentence is enough or not. An expert at Fiqh should be able to tell. I will look it up and share the details later.

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I didn't mean like Kafirs but non-Muslim in sense of committing kufr, just like a person who doesn't pray 5 Salah's daily is a kafir. True repentence can get that person back into Islam but he doesn't have to go through all the stuff a Kafir has to do when embrassing Islam because that person was misguided by Shatan on the wrong path.

A person doesn't need to do anything else beside repenting once he/she commits a sin! The condition i mentioned earlier need to be considered for someone who commits zina and they both want to marry later on

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bhai jaan
if they commited adultry and it was discovered, and then there has to be a wait for the child to be delivered etc etc etc. Obviously the whole world knows by now..

According to Islamic law - they have to be stoned to death ... Period

Forget about maafi talafi - that is between God and the person. Maybe he will go to heaven if he was otherwise a good person - once God forgives his hideous crime...

But according to the law of the sharia a worldly punishment is due .....

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Sir, it would be better to not put period where Allah puts semi colon :)

An-Nisa (Women) (4) - Roukh 3

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As for those of your women who are guilty of lewdness, call to witness four of you against them. And if they testify (to the truth of the allegation) then confine them to the houses until death take them or (until) Allah appoint for them a way (through new legislation). {15} And as for the two of you who are guilty thereof, punish them both. And if they repent and improve, then let them be. Lo! Allah is ever relenting, Merciful. {16} Forgiveness is only incumbent on Allah toward those who do evil in ignorance (and) then turn quickly (in repentance) to Allah. These are they toward whom Allah relenteth. Allah is ever Knower, Wise. {17} The forgiveness is not for those who do ill-deeds until, when death attendeth upon one of them, he saith: Lo! I repent now; nor yet for those who die while they are disbelievers. For such We have prepared a painful doom

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Guys i am a man of limited knowledge but one thing that comes to mind is that its not upto muslims to declare who goes to hell and who goes to heaven. There are rules and regulations laid down in quran and sunna and are there for all to follow. We have to make sure we are following the right path, yes identify and call if see something worng but dont pass a verdict about anyone going to hell...Definitely do not call a momin a kafir or non muslim.
I do agree that zina is a very serious crime and only getting married is not the resolution to that. Rules are there to stop a crime before happening not give a resolution to it after its committed. I believe its been correctly identified that zaani should repent and repent with complete honesty and faith and without doubt Allah's mercy is greater than his anger.

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Frrquan, is this a real friend or is it just you?

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