Re: Sex and Weight
come on people. you gain weight when you consume more calories than you burn. Sometimes, wives gain weight because they've "caught" their man and no longer feel the need to watch. Or the husbands gain weight because they enjoy the cooking of their new wives and no longer feel the need to be watchful. Sex is a physical activity that burns calories among other delightful things and so has nothing to do with weight gain.
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No you don't gain weight after having sex, if that was the case then Paris Hilton would be the most buxom, chubby, embonpoint, plump, zaftig, zoftig girl on the planet.
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True that!!!
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I don't think it does, when I got married, I stayed the same way I was, only gained a little bit because I stopped running in the mornings and no more riding on the bike, no more fitness stuff. I think that is the real case with girls getting fat. Mostly they go to school before marriage and excersize, and after marriage they're either not allowed anymore or they don't have the time, and when you stop excersizing your body get's fat sooner, because it's so used to the excersize.
Personally, I first gained weight after having children, then lost it when they were a little older and I was working part time, then now I gained again because of staying at home all day which means: I don't walk a lot, don't bike a lot, no excersize basically.
and that's what causes other females to gain weight too. It's not directly marriage and sex what causes it, that's superstition, it's the sudden change of loosing the amount of walking/excersize girls do before they are wed. When married girls start working or excersizing, I bet they loose weight again.
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well men should keep in shape too…but the pressure is more on the woman..the man only needs to mkae sure his wallet sticks out more than his belly to keep his woman satisfied..
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Yes, money is important for some women. I used to have a colleague once who would ask every guy for two things when she would be interested in him: firstly what his horoscope was to see if he matched her (!!!) and secondly what kind of job/car he had! Unbelievable!
But I think for most people it's not beauty or money that counts. It's the character. Come on, even if you would have the beauty or the money, but you don't have anything in common and/or the other person has a bad character, doesn't treat you right etc. Than even money or the beauty of that person wouldn't be enough!
My friend was married to her cousin. It was a terrible marriage, they separated and came back together due to family pressure etc. many times. It was doomed from the beginning. That girls family sells cloth, her mamoos and her father all are doing fine selling cloth and her cousin whom she married are doing fine too (they have dvd/games shops which are doing great). They were both a goodlooking couple plus they both had enough money.
But that wasn't enough! The guy and his family wouldn't treat her well. So all the money and all their good looks couldn't give her happiness.
Now she is divorced and happy. She is not rich, lives in an appartment which is just enough for her and her kids. And she is happy nevertheless.
Please everyone, don't let your happiness be ruined by bad choices or family pressures or bad thinking like a huge wallet will give happiness or beauty will give happiness. My friend has always been a pretty girl and so was her ex. But do you know what counts most? A beautifull character inside. When my friend once tried to tell her Mom her ex was changing in his attitude towards her for the worst, her Mumsy said: 'Well, at least he's good looking. The other girls have ugly husbands. Yours is goodlooking, that's what counts because all men are like that!' go figure! Now her Moms attitude is changed for the better in many ways fortunately.
Ask yourself what really makes you happy and look for that in life next to fullfilling your duties.
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Women often gain weight due to birth control pills. Maybe that's one of the reasons women gain weight once they are sexually active.
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its better for me to commit all types of sin and then after i get married ill equal the sawaab with sins 
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your metabolism also slows down as you age. I know mine did even in the twenties:bummer: