Re: Settling
Did you approve of this guy before and are now being swayed by your friends’ opinions? Or do you feel that you’re not being swayed and that you actually feel that your friends’ concerns or disapproval is valid? How do you feel about him? How do you feel when you interact with him? Can you see a future with him or no? Again, if your heart is just reaaaaalllly not into this and you truly believe him to be unworthy, don’t marry him. The beginning stages of a marriage, I’ve heard, are delicate and trying…adding contempt to it will only make it more challenging.