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What a bunch of BS?
I can’t believe minah_pa you fell for that the guy is clearly lying from his ass 
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Actually, I should not say "may". I can guarantee you there is at least one person per gender that would find you and your husband hideous.
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:D
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shes into him...hes not into her...he likes his girl but feels no physical attraction towards her...she always initiates physical affection etc...whilst in reality he wants pathmani but cant have her...
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What a jerk! He's just using her!
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soo he's a crap.
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Naughty ur so naughty... so shallow and egotistical.. typical desi guy :p
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OK...to those who think im full of ****...this is hardly an unusual case...there are plenty of people who settle for 2nd best because 1st is out of reach...so i dont know why ppl are accusin me of lyin...but hey think what you like...
Munah...you are correct...if you are going to compromise dont compromise to such a degree where it brings you and your partner unhappiness...thats easier said than done though...
And Sara i dont think im shallow and egotistical but hey you're entitled to your opinion...
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PCG please don’t make fun of me because I have this hunchback. My husband finds it very attractive.
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I don’t buy it. Either you’ve got it or you don’t. I mean how many men find Angelina Jolie hideous?
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My husband does actually.
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I’m not ashamed to say certain women are beautiful, I dont c them as “competitioN” or someone to stay away frm… but angelina jolie is hideous…
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I understand where he's coming from. my advice would be to wait and one day you will be with that person who was made for you...the one you find attractive etc....
I believe matches are made in heaven.....and we must be patient instead of settling for "second best"....cuz that wont last.
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If you are settling for 2nd. best because the first was "out of reach", then hello!? You didn't qualify. So isn't second best really best?
I think I've come across too many people that feel they could have done better. I really wish reality would hit....and hit hard at them. It usually does though. There comes a day when that which they thought wasn't good enough, wants nothing to do with them.
I firmly believe that we are coupled by Allah's wish. And in each union there are lessons to be learned by both parties........but that's another thread isn't it?
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How do you really gauge who is best, and then who is second best, and then third best, etc etc.
Each guy has his own special characteristics. 
Well, the ones I’ve met in real life. Not GS boys.
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Muzna...
Second best is the best that you can do...its not the best in your eyes...so its hardly gonna make you happy...
PCG...
There isnt a ranking system...1st best is the one he wanted...2nd is the one he settled for...
Everyone does that at some point in their lives...
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If second best is the best you can do then your expectations of achieving anything better are unrealistic. Nobody with a twisted sense of reality can ever be happy. They live in a dream world and if they do not save themselves or are rescued, they will take all those near and dear to them down the spiral of desperation and depression. So there.
And your answer to PCG......if second is what he settled for then second is what he should be happy with. No if's, ands or buts about it.
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“If second best is the best you can do then your expectations of achieving anything better are unrealistic. Nobody with a twisted sense of reality can ever be happy. They live in a dream world and if they do not save themselves or are rescued, they will take all those near and dear to them down the spiral of desperation and depression. So there.”
Cool… :k: