NomiCA
April 29, 2011, 5:15pm
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Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!
Yes my primary concern is supporting my parents. They have supported me since birth, and whatever I am today it is because of their unconditional love and support. Now what a lot of ladies don’t seem to realize is that supporting my parents being my primary concern does not mean I am going to lock my wife up in the basement and feed her sewer rats. It means that I will apportion my income in a way that I can keep my household running as well as financially support my parents when needed. How many cases have you come across where women have been denied their basic rights by her husband who is paying for his parents or siblings’ luxuries? Don’t quote some souped up life1 thread, or one of those Star Plus soaps for that matter. I have seen quite many cases where women get bent out of shape if the husband financially supports his family, even for very proper and legit reason. If my parents are in some financial difficulty, she is going to have to postpone a vacation. And I would expect her to be supportive of that. Having said that, if her parents are in a financial difficulty, it is again my responsibility to support them if her brothers can’t or won’t.
Man…don’t bother explainin…seriously…
Ladies…please post your respective spousal abuse stories related to the husband and his family…preferrably keept it relevant to the finances only…thank you..