Seriously...this whole supporting the parents business!

[Jaanwar]

Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!

@Reha

Thats all I wanted to hear Jay…

Being there for mommy and daddy does not mean you have to necessarily NOT be there for wife…and vice versa.

I dont think I would marry a man who didnt care for his parents because if you dont care for the people that put you on this planet then I dont stand a chance. However, if you dont have the maturity to be just and fair to both parties…its not a good idea to be married at all.

And Im not talking about only Life1 threads where men go all up in arms when we dare talk about their parents…Im talking about some real life examples I have seen of men ACTUALLY saying “what will I tell Allah swt when He asks me if I was there for my mother” in response to why he hid his income from his wife and kept it between him and his mother. Wife was expected to shut up and stay out of their business and THAT is being a good son according to some men who are still roaming the earth and havent been run over by my lawn mower.

Well yeah, thats another extreme. I don’t approve of that, but that definitely is not the majority. The blind generalization by our sistah feministahs is what pisses me off. Your parents being your priority doesn’t automatically mean you are going to be a piss-mop of a husband.