Serious reply

[princessjojo]

Re: Serious reply

@SamiaQ

Parents of second cousin have asked my rishta. I do not like the guy much. We used to be friends (not really good but normal).
Three years back he started to show interest. At first I ignored him but after a while I started liking him.
And we talked to each other once a while. There were no wedding plannings because we are both studying.
By the way I am now 22 and he is 21 :S.
Then I found out six months back that he has having a relationship with another girl . He is not interested to marry her. His girlfriend was an hindu girl.
HE still wants to marry me but I hate him.
I told my mom everything but she still wants me to marry him. MY parents are forcing me to marry him.
And I do not have any family member who is on my site. They all say that young guys to things like that
What should I do now? elope?

Ask him if he can give you some time so that you can go out with another guy.

On a serious note, be resilient. Do no give in. Are they pressuring you SO much that you are considering eloping??

We always blame guys for being loose and fooling around without realizing that many of us women give them such leeway. I just can’t believe your mom.