Serious reply

[SamiaQ]

Re: Serious reply

@redvelvet

Your parents can pressure all they want…but the marriage isn’t valid until it has your approval.

1. Talk to your parents calmly…discus your feelings and the possible consequences of marrying a guy you have no interest in…and moreover that you loathe.

2. If no family member is on your side…then TALK to your cousin directly. Tell him that you have no interest or desire in marrying him and that it’s unfair for you to be pressured by family. If your cousin has any self-respect…he won’t pursue a girl who has directly turned him down. If that doesn’t work…then have the courage to talk to your cousin’s parents and tell them that you don’t want to marry their son. If they have any self-respect…they won’t pursue the rishta.

i have talked to my mom several time but it does not have any effect
i have also talked to this cousin and told him to tell his parents that they should not bother, in the phone conversation he says okay but afterwards he messages me something like ‘i thought u want to talk abt something else and u called me after such a long time etc’