Thois is a very serious question.
What is the Islamic teaching about sex.
How a husband and wife can enjoy each other.
What is the take on oral sex.
What about kinky sex.
We are now growing up in the information age where all these kinds of ideas and thoughts are readily available.
We should know exactly know what Islam has to say about all this so we can lead our lives in a true Islamic manner.
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if you are really serious about this question then I suggest you pose it to your iman at school or at a mosque and they will give you the answer. You can also read up the appropriate sayings of the Prophet (PBUH) in any of the classical books.
With your refence to Kinky sex I am not sure if this is stated as a serious question.
People responding should please stick to the questions asked. Thank you.
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www.musalman.com
I hope it helps !!!
A Person too BE!
I don't know the ruling on oral sex. How do you define "kinky sex". The ruling regarding anal sex is clear that it is haraam (prohibited), even with your wife. Islam, being religion of purity and cleanliness, I doubt that it would permit anything distasteful in sex such as oral or anal sex. But then again, its my mere opinion and I have been wrong many times. Wallah-u-alam bisawab.
iqadeer,
how can sex be haram in islam? you need to have sexual intercourse to reproduce.
2pak ummmm i think u missed the fact that he wrote anal sex is haraam. btw if no one has told you this before..
There can be no reproduction by anal sex :>
Mr Fruadia...>>There can be no reproduction by anal sex :> <<
neither can it be by swallowing.
correct me if i wrong but it seems to me that the last post stated that sex is only and only for reproduction
I understand what you mean now. But I don't Islam states anything about oral/anal sex. If it does please give some reference.
Anal Sex
Anal intercourse with one's wife is a major sin, whether it occurs at the time of menstruation or not. The Prophet SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) cursed the one who does this: "Cursed is the one who approaches his wife in her rectum" (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 2/479; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5865).
The Prophet SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) also said: "The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5918)
Intercourse is forbidden for the husband in two situations:
(1) At the time of the monthly period, as Allah says: "They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an adha (a harmful thing), therefore keep away from women during their menses, and go not unto them till they have purified themselves. And when they have purified themselves, then go into them as Allah has ordained for you. Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto Him in repentance and loves those who purify themselves." [al-Baqarah 2:222]
(2) Anal intercourse. The Messenger of Allah (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) said: "He is cursed ,the one who has intercourse with his wife in her anus." (Reported by Abu Dawud and Imam Ahmad, and deemed saheeh in Saheeh al-Jaami‘, 5889).
taken from web sites***
A Person too BE!
As many have stated that sex from behind is stricktly forbidden in Islam. Islam is quite about oral sex, so it is left on your personal taste. You find it abhorent, stay away form it. You like indulging in it, enjoy it. Sex is not only for reproduction. It is for enjoyment too. However sex is with one's lawfull partner only.
:)
Salamoalaikum
There is a book called "Ideal Woman in Islam". You might want to read that.....
I forgot the author's name :-<
Wa'salam
Mostansar
You might want to check out this site, it sometimes has answers to questions like yours:
Http://www.islam-qa.com
Just type in keywords in your search and some answers (with references) should come up.
Achtung
GET THIS ALL OF U's SEX IS for only reproduction god made it enjoyable so we idiots would do it..other wise who would wana be in that condition if it was NOT enjoyable helloo??????? Its only and sole purpose is reproduction so we "ahruful-makhlukat" dont get wiped out...so its enjoyable and reproduces bachey...you wouldnt do something important if its not enjoyable would you?
There is book called "Mubashrat" take a look at it its in urdu...very detailing!!!
Jaawan
Till next time*K_I_S_S*©
This is what i found on that site achtung gave:
Your apology is accepted. Striving to understand the rulings of Sharee'ah
in this and similar matters is not haraam or shameful; it is necessary.
As regards your question, anal intercourse with one's wife is a major sin,
whether it occurs at the time of menstruation or not. The Prophet
SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) cursed the one who does
this: "Cursed is the one who approaches his wife in her rectum" (Reported
by Imaam Ahmad, 2/479; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5865).
The Prophet SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) also
said: "The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a
woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in
what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see
also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5918).
In spite of the fact that many wives of sound nature refuse this, there are
some husbands who threaten their wives with divorce if they do not obey
them (in this matter), and some even deceive their wives, who are too shy
to ask scholars about it, into thinking that it is permissible. The Prophet
SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) said that a man may
approach his wife in any way he likes, from the front or the back, so long
as intercourse takes place in the place from through which a child is born.
There is no doubt that the rectum is the place from which waste matter is
expelled, not the place from which a child is born.
Another reason why some may commit this immoral act is that they enter
upon what should be a clean married life with some jaahili (ignorant)
traditions and odd practices, or with memories of scenes from indecent
movies, for which they have not repented to Allaah.
It is known that this act is forbidden even if both partners agree to it.
Mutual consent to a haraam deed does not make it halaal.
I ask Allah to bestow upon us a proper understanding of His religion and
to make us adhere to its limits, for He is the All-Hearing, the One Who
answers prayers.
Thanks for the site Achtung!
Jaawan
Till next time*K_I_S_S*©
A lot of questions posted by IMY2K has already been answered here, but i will go ahead & try to answer them again.
Q.What is the Islamic teaching about sex.
A. Islamic teaching about sex is that its halal between a husband & a wife. This is for them to enjoy and they can do it as much as long as its pertaining to the correct and prescribed manners. Actually, the more sex one has with their legal islamic partner, the more sawab (good deeds) they receive from allah (swt). This is cuz allah (swt) has said that he will punish those who commit fornication & adultry and reward those who listen to his commands.
Q.How a husband and wife can enjoy each other.
A. They can have as much sex & enjoy themselves as much as they want in the ways prescribed in islam.
Q.What is the take on oral sex.
A.There is no ruling in the books of Hadith or Quran about oral sex. According to some, this makes it lawful for us to have oral sex with ours partners. However, if you understand the basics of Islamic teachings, you will realize that it does not correspond to the cleanliness and hygienic requirements prescribed in Islam. I mean, would someone be willing to kiss his wife or kiss her husband on the lips if they have their mouths in places where impurties come from? Also, imagine reading the quran from the same mouth & eating from the same mouth?
Allah knows best.
Q.What about kinky sex.
A. Definition of kinky sex would have been better here. So you would need to address this question again with more info.
As far as anal sex is concerned, its written in the quran & hadith thats its haram so there is no debate on this issue at all. Also, if you research the AIDS disease, its origin is through anal sex.
wa'salaam.
your brother in islam.