serious marital issues

Princess1983 · February 22, 2013, 2:23pm

Re: serious marital issues

He’s a bully ! and he enjoys creating a fuss and then getting sympathies from his family and he does all this at the cost of his marriage & his wife’s respect. This is emotional abuse.

I am sure that you must be aware of the fact that he cares little about this marriage and about you & his kids . It wouldn’t make a difference to him if you’re & your children leave. I feel sorry for you because I can actually relate to your current situation. He will not change , you will have to change yourself and work on yourself and your life style. Avoid getting into argument with him because no matter who is at fault creating a scene of it in front of one’s own parents and spouse’s parents is just so very low & cheap . Concentrate on your kids , make them focus of your life , stop expecting kindness from your husband and make your self indifferent and just try to survive each day with patience and hope for a better future for your kids.

I am sorry but considering your husband’s behaviour i don’t see a happy marriage . It would be a tough compromise for you. Cutting down on fights is the only way out for you and it will also be very good for your children. You cannot imagine how damaging it is for your children to see their parents fight so often with such a big scene.

Diamond can relate so I think her advice is best TBH.
Can you talk to your ILs about the fights etc?