I was wearing the bracelet mil gave me on the way back from pak and i think it might have slid of without me noticing it . I have looked everywhere for it
what do i do this is compltely arranged and things from the start have not been good now what
any advice is appreciated icant seem to find it anywhere he asked his mother to check back home and its not there too this will really hurt her feelings iam so irresponsiable
There is a really old jeweler from where my family shops and he claims his bangles can never break but when purchased by MIL, some brides would knowingly break them within days in order to imply that it was of poor quality. I’m sure you didn’t loose the bracelet on purpose but don’t be mad if they suspect you of doing it on purpose.
Interesting, I have a similar story. A worker in a shop at Dubai airport once gave me a beautiful hand made bracelet yet on my PIA flight from Dubai to Pakistan, I dozed off and woke up to it missing. I looked everywhere around where I was sitting but it was gone. I am sorry this happened to you, obviously yours is a more pressing matter. Don’t be too hard on yourself, mistakes happen. The only thing you can do is apologize and send the mil a gift. If you have a picture of the bracelet, you can get a replica made to compensate as well.
Don’t worry about it 'cuz you didn’t do it on purpose. Issue banna nai chahiye lekin agar ban jata hai tou banney do.
May be not the best person to advise but this is a normal day incident that can happen with anyone. Specially during travel. Just stick with the honest response of what happened and how. And the detail of all the efforts that you did to find it. Any sane & mature person will understand it and sympathize with you over the loss. But if someone tries to make a big deal out of it, that itself is kinda red flag. Trust is a important ingredient without which the whole recipe may go out of order.
Be blunt and tell her as it is
You yourself is saying things weren’t good from the start
If it means to be then it will
Her reaction will be the true one where you know where you stand in this relationship and was this incident blessing in disguise
Agree…
can’t do much about it…just phrase your ‘intimation of the loss’ in most considerate way possible…showing your remorse etc… thats all you can do…
If you have a picture of it maybe you can get another one made? If you don’t I’m sure she wouldn’t think less of you. Things happen, it’s not your fault.