Well since the cat’s outta da bag, i’ll stop pretending and saying hypothetically speaking. My mum is confused because it is her elder sister’s son. My eldest khala is putting pressure on mum. My mum just had a major surgery and the day she came to visit mum at home to see how she’s doing after the surgery, she asked for my sister’s hand in marriage. I know A is not a good person and it is a total mismatch. I am just a bit shy and uncomfortable about how I am going to tell my mum when she questions me about A and why I don’t like him. That’s why opened this thread. Double minded about how to bring up my dislike regarding the person.