Separation to save our marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Separation to save our marriage

@StrangeOne

Your husband is separating from his wife NOT his children. What kind of BS father kicks his kids out of the home. If you had asked earlier I would have flat out advised you to leave your kids behind. It goes against all your motherly instincts but dad needs to remember he’s a full time dad not time pass baby sitter.

These 4 months are going to be heaven for him without the responsibility of the kids so obviously divorce is going to be the option. You’re making his life way too easy.

I disagree with this approach. Well-being of the kids should be everyone’s #1](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1) priority. Leaving a 4-year-old child in a home where that child is obviously not wanted is not a good idea.

And it sounds like the husband has already made up his mind. 4-months of not having the the wife there means 4 months of no arguments when husband gets home from work. 4-months of not being nagged about things like why he didn’t buy flowers and not having to pick a side between wife and mother. His parents seem to support the idea of divorce too since they’re the one’s who called wife’s parents. If the father hasn’t developed an attached to a child in 4 years, it’s not going to happen in 4 months.