Separation to save our marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Separation to save our marriage

@Nad_e_Ali

However, my husband has clearly told me twice that he wants to end this marriage and we are giving it a try ( by separating) for the sake of his parents.

@Nad_e_Ali

And I do not want a divorce that is why we are having a trial separation. But my husband wants this at the moment.

@Nad_e_Ali

My husband is not ready for any sort of counselling. he asked his parents to contact mine to take me and the kids to their home.

You need to get counseling and work on yourself. As far as this marriage goes, if your husband is not willing to continue the marriage, then this will end in divorce. In order for a marriage to work, both people have to want continue it. If your husband is not willing to work on it and HE himself basically kicked you and the kids out of the house…then it’s time you need to start being realistic. Work on yourself and stay open to your husband changing his mind. BUT also seriously start coming up with a back-up plan in the event that your husband does not want you/kids to return after 4 months.