well anyways i don't know the details of your situation or the personalities of you and your husband but i would be careful about bringing a baby into this world when baby's daddy looks like he will not be around. stuck alone caring for a baby whose father doesn't even want to try and give the relationship another chance.
i wanted to say exactly the same ....
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Citrine, I wish somehow you could have a mediator between you two. At some point your families need to step out because it is now not just a matter of you two but a child as well.
Maybe you should contact a common friend and ask for help.
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its not possible to talk to him anymore,..he dont listen dont pick up my calls and dnt txt back...i wish we had a third person who could resolve this matter ..but there isnt anyone...also we dont have any common friend really...i dont knw about his friends and he dont know abt mine....because we just recently got married...and never involved our friends before...
he isnt putting any effort into the relationship ...he told me that he wants to move on and start a new life with someone else..it makes me very upset...
he even dont care about our child..he told me i can abort it if i want to.coz he dont want anything to do with me..
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its not possible to talk to him anymore,..he dont listen dont pick up my calls and dnt txt back...i wish we had a third person who could resolve this matter ..but there isnt anyone...also we dont have any common friend really...i dont knw about his friends and he dont know abt mine....because we just recently got married...and never involved our friends before...
he isnt putting any effort into the relationship ...he told me that he wants to move on and start a new life with someone else..it makes me very upset... he even dont care about our child..he told me i can abort it if i want to.coz he dont want anything to do with me..
Was he seeing someone already ? Astaghfarullah he is willing to kill a baby for his freedom. I would say still give it some time. You are a Muslim , we do not kill babies just for the heck of it. If he comes running or not , please do not listen to those who are giving you advice to abort this baby. Allah will Inshallah reward you highly if you save life of that baby. That baby has done no harm to anybody and does not deserve to die. If push come to shove you can put that baby for adoption , but please do not abort.
Abortion in Islam is allowed only if it will result in saving the life of the mother.
what do you guys expect her to do, have an abortion?
This sounds so much like another story i read on here, i’m so sorry you have to go through this citrine.. i hope things work out for the best. 
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thanx guys am feeling much better now....:)
Was he seeing someone already ? Astaghfarullah he is willing to kill a baby for his freedom. I would say still give it some time. You are a Muslim , we do not kill babies just for the heck of it. If he comes running or not , please do not listen to those who are giving you advice to abort this baby. Allah will Inshallah reward you highly if you save life of that baby. That baby has done no harm to anybody and does not deserve to die. If push come to shove you can put that baby for adoption , but please do not abort. Abortion in Islam is allowed only if it will result in saving the life of the mother.
I agree. Are you sure he wasnt seeing anyone prior to your marriage or during? He sounds like he has already moved on emotionally and is just waiting for the formalities to be over with.
Also, that baby belongs to YOU. Yes, he is the father but he doesnt WANT to be. Now, that child is yours and you need to do what is right for him/her. Remember, he/she is depending on you now. No, abortion is not the answer here.
Try to talk to him, see if there is any hope left. If not, please move past this and start to prepare for the future of your baby. As Nik said, try to see if a third party can help out with this. There has to be someone. Maybe even the local masjid can help. I know a guy who went through the masjid Imams to so he could patch things up with his wife. It worked for him because they were able to talk out their differences with a neutral party present.
What do your parents say to you about all of this?