Naoman bin Harisa’s mother ordered him something, in the presence of his wife. Siting infront of his mother like a slave, Noaman [r.a] (with low gaze in mother’s respect) couldn’t clearly hear the order, but felt shy in requesting her to repeat.
With the movement of eyes and finger he secretly messaged his wife to meet him outside the room, and left quietly so his mother couldnt feel him leaving.
After she came out of the room and looked at him curiously, he wispered" What did mom just ordered me ?"
After knowing this man, I realized how much sensitive those people used to be in dealing with their relatives/ colleagues that even in discussion they used to refrain from raising their voice, looking straight into anyone’s eyes, chating with each others infront of elders, standing by showing their back to their elder, interupting them, arguing ,…etc.
BUT at the same time they were very much forgiving on other’s rudeness, misbehaving, disrepectful behaviour…etc.
Do you think that presently our sense of sensitivity is the opposite, i.e. relatively more active for our own “self respect” and at times we unintentionaly care less about the impact of our words/ways on others ?
Re: Sensitive in relationships
I think we are quiet self centreed in our reactions to others' rudeness and carelessness.
Re: Sensitive in relationships
I was reading about the person whom I consider as an ideal.
He always used to meet even his enemies with a smile on his face, inspite of facing the worst mental and physical pain in his personal life.
He was always the first to greet anyone he came across.
At night or in the morning whenever he used to wake up, he used to be so careful that without making any noise very softly he used to walk, open and close the door, lift or place anything that not a single sound could wake up anyone who was sleeping at that time.
If someone called him from the left or right while he was siting. He used to move his whole body in order to point his whole body towards that person, instead of keeping the whole body in the same position and only twisting his neck to look at him.
If anyone started talking to him, he used to listen to him carefully till that person got tired of talking, but he never interrupted him even though he had alot of things to be done urgently.
If anyone shook hand with him, he never pulled his hand back till that man left it himself.
Every man who when meet him even once, started thinking that he (saw) loves me the most and I am his favourite companion.