its does not sound like an issue with sensitivity but more with immaturity and lack of ability to communicate.
Obviously, if you are wrong and angry at him, he may get ticked off at that anyways and has a right to be upset if you are angry at him while you are in the wrong.
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The thing is that he is a very sensitive type.If he does anything which i wouldn't like,i cannot even be angry with me.Because if i become angry,then what i get to see is that,he tends to become very sensitive,and he himself stops talking with me,though it would be me who is angry.And so finally i would only have to forget about my angerness,and go and talk with him.And many a times the situation gets so worse that,I have to try so hard to patch-up,or make him not to be angry.
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This guy sounds like he suffers from a bit of inferiority complex. As soon as he senses you getting angry over something he may have done, he puts his guards up and behaves as if the fault is at your end.
None of us are perfect. We all have our bad sides and do our share of mistakes. So when a wrong doing is pointed out things should be talked out rather than going all chup on one's friend.
Thats what i try to do but i don't like his this attitude,but what should i do?Iam scared to talk with him regarding all this as iam scared he would get angry,etc..
Whats the point of relationship - anykind be it frens or more than frens when you guys can't even open to each other without any fear? I believe no relationship can last long enougg if each partner keep thinking or fearing what to say or what not.
If your partner is at fault - he should realize it. You should make him realize but not by getting angry. Talk to him and tell him calmly. If he still shows attitude then think twice before making final decisions regarding him.
Sensitive guys are like sensitive skin...there's one problem coming after another and another for mild reasons. Just how many products are you going to use? Just how many chemicals are you going to avoid using? Just how much can you not go under the sun? Hard to deal with, my friend.
He doesn't sound like the sensitive type, he sounds like a retarded type. (pardon me).
Dump him and move on.
Relationships require work and understanding. He isn't willing to demonstrate either.
Not worth it. Not one bit.
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Well! My opinion is that this is his first real relationship and he is just getting used to the women world of nagging. Just keep up the pressure and he will soon get acclimatized.
I think it is understandable from mens' point of view that he is getting stumped because for most men, initially, those points on which women nag about are non-issues.
yes,the points on which i would become angry,he doesn’t even consider as points on which issues should be made of.But,i don’t know.I just cannot help it.Before when we used to argue,he used to tell me that,i expect alot .