hey all! I want to share something with all you,and eventually hope to get some suggestions :). I have a really close friend.He is a very sweet guy.Actually we both are more than friends,and we both have confessed it to each other. The thing is that he is a very sensitive type.If he does anything which i wouldn't like,i cannot even be angry with me.Because if i become angry,then what i get to see is that,he tends to become very sensitive,and he himself stops talking with me,though it would be me who is angry.And so finally i would only have to forget about my angerness,and go and talk with him.And many a times the situation gets so worse that,I have to try so hard to patch-up,or make him not to be angry. I mean why does he behave so?He expects me to accept him however he is and i should never be angry with him,even if whatever he may do.Don't i have the right to be angry with him if he does anything that i may not like. You people only tell me that what should i do?
If he does something you don't like - which happens in relationships - you have all the right to be able to express it/address it. I think this guy knows you really well and understands that you're more compromising and less egoistic than him - and you've proven him right many times.
In a strong relationship, one doesn't feel that they can't give their partner honest feedback in fears that he'll stop talking to them.
Next time, if something bother you - say so and stick to your word. If he does something or says something - you don't like it, you don't like it. If he becomes angry and stops talking to you - too bad. Let him be his immature self. I don't understand why YOU have to "try so hard to patch up". Honestly, if you say what you mean and stick to it, he will take you more seriously. If you tell him you're upset about something and then go to HIM to make up, you're telling him you're not very big about the issue.