Its hard to be a realistic person and often do things thinking above all grounds. moreover, once you are done with it the other person takes you or your kindness as your weakness.
the more you are kind hearted the more this world will hurt you and make u feel like a granted child being played about ruthlessly.
why in this modern age we have forgoten our senses, where is our sensibility?
anything can happen at any time, but the difference of dealing makes it a better situation , but before that you have to be a judge of the circumstances.
or do you prefer to do the good thinking that all is well that ends well?
or the good you do today will return to you tomorrow.
i prefer being the judge… but then when the decision is wrong … i plan to change my paths?
you know having have ability and willingness to do things for ppl, make you more accountable too.
In a way that you need to make sure, your help is not being misused. For example NGO do so much pre-approval check on a person and after they do some thing ,they check progress and commitment etc on that persons part.
Being good or wanting to help ppl is only one part of the equation, other is managing help.
Which also include keeping helper in good shape. for example many social worker run marathons and do extremely indulging activities. It help them not get emotionally weak/sick while helping ppl.
And "why" you want to do good when you don't see the immediate results. Girl!! have not hear about God??
Seriously every thing is connected to every thing else weather we see it or not. So while doing good to some one or to society or to environment NEVER think twice.
BUT you are the most important thing in this equation, You being fed up or sick is not of any use.
Then you will be seeking help.
As allah said "uper wala haath neechy waly haath sy behter hy" so be uper wala hath at all times.