so very true......
perhaps we do need to define hot first.
hot is what attracts your attention, makes you look at them once again, and you may even feel fascinated by the way they look, walk or act (not actors necessarily) and envy them for what they are (again for their looks only and not their wealth or life style or talent).
damn i agree they are pretty hot, but i dont think its "socially acceptable" for a desi woman to be 40 and single, even though its perfectly acceptable for white women to be 40 and single.
ohh shorry i missed the word "SINGLE" thats why i gave you those examples. But i think we could find some 40+ single hot women in our desi society but yes it is difficult to find.
I remember in my early 20s, a lot of guys i knew liked older women. lol...(like women past mid-20s). And then those same guys when they reached mid-20s married all younger girls...
When they were young they wanted to be mothered and now that they are old they want to do the disciplining.
That plus, when they were younger, older mature women were way out of their approach...so they learned the hard way and went for the easily moulded teeny boppers.