Re: SELFISH stupid cow of a ''friend'' WHAT the HELL is the point of a DOLKI!!!!
lol @ this thread.
MB its her wedding, she can have mehndi, shaadi, walima months or years apart. Its her wedding, let her do it the way she wants. If you have your own things to do, just simply don't go. I don't understand why she needs to do things according to your schedule.
Re: SELFISH stupid cow of a ''friend'' WHAT the HELL is the point of a DOLKI!!!!
I know for a fact i wud attend my best friends dolki regardless whether it was on my boyfriends bday or not....i wud make sure i celebrate his bday the day b4..MMmm...im beginning to think WAT sort of friend r u???
OK MB....pls post response to all the guppies who hav responded wat u gonna do????
your selfish not her, its her WEDDING not urs....get over urself...im sure your bf has many other birthdays no? hes only ur bf too, MY HUSBANDs BIRTHDAY fell on my nephews haqiqa...so bloody what..we didnt think twice about it, we went to haqiqa then had dinner late for his bday..he doesnt think much of these petty things....your really dilluded, thank god u have ur priorities straight.
I never got a chance to reply to anything in my thread. But thanks for the replies. May i just add that she hasnt been the perfect friend herself. She herself has ranted about her boyfriend for cheating on her. Shes caused grief between me and my bf. But the great friend that I am i have forgiven her. Now i have said i will attend her mehndi/wedding. Not to the dolki, Im sorry but i dont live around the corner. I would have to train it too. Also i would have to book 3 weeks off because what am i meant to do go down every week? it would cost me a bomb. Its not on weekends its on week days. The whole my boyfriend isnt 4 bla bla, Well its not about OH hes a big boy now im sure he can handle it, For people that DO have boyfriends im sure you understand. For people that dont......... well when you do get someone you care about you will.
I really dont see how i am the selfish one because oh im sorry i cant go down to her place for a 3 hour drive on my boyfriend birthday then frm hers go to his which will take 2 hours. Then another 2 hours to go home. And then go work. Yes i'll do that shall i.
Gosh maybe i just wrote it on the wrong forum. I dont see the big deal about dolkis. And btw i could'nt care less who attended my wedding etc or not. Aslong as i have my hubby, Erm who are they? Also do the bride n groom even care that your there? ALSO if i wrote a list about what this girl has done you wouldnt be saying shes the selfish one. Nevermind tho! Just had to get my opinion across!!!
your hubby, boyfriend and a friend have a dolki. i am confused now. :\
Naah mate, her good friend is having her dholki on the same day as (MB's) bf's birthday. Apparently though, MB's friend has also been doing a lot of shady stuff to MB and her bf. *