What to do if ur partner is selfish by nature and takes everything offensive even if its not said to her…
and dosent like to do anything besides going out and anything fun..
hates cooking serving/warming food
dosent want u to go to work and calls u at work all the time to come back earlier 
yeah and is not concerned how much u earn she wants her demands to be met at any cost…
and dosent let u go anyywhere at any cost alone…(except work)
wakes up at 1 pm…
and is tooo emotional as in if u tell her that u r wrong shell cry…
any options beside leaving her??
and yeah cant talk to anyone coz taht’d be offensive and disrespecting too..
what should I do???
I cant think of anything.. if I dare to threaten her that if u wont correct urself ill leave u shell be like ok! and shell go to her parents and wont pick up…
Am I too dumb or too lenient?
I feel like sueciding…
Re: Selfish Partner
Jis khet se dehkan ko mayassar na ho roti. Us khet ke har khosayen gandum ko jalado
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plz dont sueciding
go take a holiday by yourself, tell her “kar lo jo karna hai, nautanki kaheen ki”
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whats that suppose to mean?
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i Was refering to chanel manager...
she would probably leave me but i dont wana leave her coz of my son
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So she is doing something--i.e. taking care of your son?
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i Was refering to chanel manager... she would probably leave me but i dont wana leave her coz of my son
I mean its unfortunately do or die situation now, so you have to take stand.
Re: Selfish Partner
How on earth does she look after the son if she wakes up at 1 pm? And describe how she takes care of the son (cooking, cleaning, playing, educating him).
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would’ve helped if you added you had a kid in the first post.
now i sound like a dbag 
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My mum would look after him if she has to sleep.. she has to take her sleepor shell b angry... and she eats unhealthy and shez un fit if i try to emphasise on the importance of heath she would get pised off.. my son is few months so he dosent really need to be educated as such... taking care responsibility is half half but if she does some extra bit she would straight away refer me to some of her cozins husband who is super dad...
cleaning is sth we usually have an argument abt so u can imagine...
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Acha, so now we learn she is a new mom.
Personally, I'm not going to make excuses for new moms and say that they shouldn't keep up with housework and cooking and other stuff - most women learn to manage, but that takes time. I wouldn't expect a new mom to just automatically know how to balance motherhood and wifehood. Maybe she's having a difficult time post-pregnancy adjusting to the hormonal changes and the exhaustion of looking after an infant.
Does the baby keep her up at night? Is that why she sleeps in late?
Also, was she like this before she go pregnant?
Oh, and how do you help? Are you a hands-on dad who gives her some time to herself so that she can take of herself and the home or do you expect it to be her sole responsibility?
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even before baby she was like that
no baby dosent keep her awake .... I have to wake up everytime she wakes up...
evern before baby she was 100% same
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while pregnant it was rather justifiable not to cook clean etc but i am talking abt the attitude as a whole i feel like those who want to do sth they wold do sth less effort requiring... or its not abt cokking or anything its that even before she had noo interests what so ever besides going out shopping and dining i mean pregnent women somtimes like to do sth for themselves... sewing painting reading a book watching tv/movie/drams internet.... or is it not normal?? she would watch tv/movie/drama if i put it on but NEVER EVER by herslf..and then she wants attention all the time and my presence 24/7
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OMG life1 is full of trolls these days 
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Answer this - is she a good mother or in being a selfish partner is she a neglectful mother as well?
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and not in a very peacefull manner she will always have a complain sometimes she would cry for so little issues i feel like banging my head in the wall... she would almost always raise the issue up in arrogant fighting manner and move down to crying... my q is all this behaviiour is it phsycotic??? n if it is how do i deal with it?
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i wont lie abt it shez not neglectfull but ..for her , she comes first .... before anything
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how did she get pregnuns if she salfish?
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Flips through queer-to-English dictionary
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Looking it up in the queer-to-jeer dictionary might help. 