can u actually define it?
I was kinda concerned about someon…as in her doing stuff that I couldnt figure out how anyone in her right mind could be doing. I was like how can someones ego let em do that!!! (lol i am known to have huge ego problems)
I am not in the position to help her out or i would just straight up say that n try talkin to her more but I know no matter how good my intentions r they will be taken the wrong way and I will only worsen the situation but then I was thinking maybe I could someone else to talk to her n try to tell her…but can u actually change such things? maybe to her wat shes doing is right n i think she knows it isnt getting her much respect..but when she thinks wat shes doing is right then is there a way to let her know wat shes doing is something most ppl would consider wrong. Or when ppl do wrong things it doesnt hurt their ego? Do some ppl even have self-respect at all :-s I guess my question is can a person who has problems like that can actually be helped
wot is she doing?
errrmm I cant really say..but let me think of examples...back stabbing, two-faced type of things (hehe sounds like general desi problem)
Re: self respect
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Or when ppl do wrong things it doesnt hurt their ego? Do some ppl even have self-respect at all :-s I guess my question is can a person who has problems like that can actually be helped
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nope, not when they are desperate.
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nope, not when they are desperate.
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hmm ok thats not good BUT I JUST HAD THE MOST BRILLIANT IDEA!!!
P.S. u should be scared
Ofcourse those kind of people can be helped.They're just going through a bad habit-thats hopefully for a short period of time.
And people who do that are so pathetic.I mean they should put those efforts to their own use.Not sit around and make other people miserable.
Tell her to grow up.
I think i did :-/ n if i didnt, honestly would too, n i can say so much more to make her realize things but the thing is I am not important to her, even if i say stuff it will register in her mind as "she doesnt like me so shes saying all that"..n shes not worth wasting my breath for nothing..I am thinking if someone she knows n likes kinda helps her out, she mite change or atleast think about it
We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit.
errrr forgot who said it 
may be it's not that person who's having problems, may be it's your thinking and the way you perceive it. if he/she thinks they are doing good for you than how in the world can you say he/she is pathetic or is having self respect problems
humans have a tendency to err others instead of realizing what their problems are. if a person can't seem to recognize their own issues i don't think that person has the right to go around blaming others for having such problems
everyone has a different way of thinking, if you can't seem to understand where that person's view is coming from you need to understand it and you need to make him/her understand yours too instead of freaking out and making a fuss about it.
i think small problems become huge issues when people--instead of calmly understanding the situation--bring in their tempers and let the aggressive side of them control it. so before misjudging someone or misunderstanding them, you have to listen to what they say too instead of just sticking to your own thoughts and reasons and not giving them a chance.
i hope that helped :)
Prex thats the prob, why worry about others at all?? if you know what you are doing is right
Chorni I have lots of problems hehe issues actually, it seems like i was born with them but then again I dont do things or judge ppl on based on nothing...there are things she did that made me think about her but now I am thinking maybe she will grow up on her own n learn