Key point, as GDIASA said, it’s a relationship and requires mutual consideration - both partners in the relationship need to be thoughtful of the other partner’s needs and how their actions impact their spouse.
But hey, there’s a solution to this, if the husband wants to take up extreme sports, he needs to take care of the following - have an ironclad insurance policy that pays out oodles of money in the event of his untimely demise. That’s being thoughtful
