ABCD/BBCD/PBCD, they all claim of being seehi saadi larkiyan, but some of them are not that seedhi as they do pretend of being seedhi but actually seedhi like jaleebi.
I know many girls back home and they are not challko massi but some of them are. I know some girls who raised back home and then landed into the western countries, they are labeled as seedhi. 
Why do some people assume that girls raised in US/UK are challko massies?
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I have no idea..maybe coz they feel these girls have more freedom as they are growing up in non-islamic countries... ?
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PBCD ka matlab bata dein…
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paklink 
it is pakistan
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No one is seedhi saadhi/bhooli bhaali in this day and age. Larkiyan are getting smarter and wiser now.
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ABCD etc have more freedom as Aliyah said....so our home bound anuty brigade suspect them of using this freedom in wrong manner.....
when they dont find any proof against these girls they label them as chalak...:D
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sab taraf chalaki hai bhai.....aaj ke daur ka seedha sada insan bhi pichle daur ke seeddhe saade insanse chalak hai...
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ABCD are chalak+freedom, rest of them are just chalak. 
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For Desis : Angoor khatte hain 
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We cannot generlise girls from any of these categories (ABCD, BBCD and PBCD) as seedhi saadhi OR chalako maasi.
It all depends on the tarbiat. A girl born and raised in USA can be a seedhi saadhi and shareef and a girl born and bred in Pakistan can be chalako maasi. Basically people think that girls born and bred outside are more informed, modern, liberal, open-minded, doesn't care about desi and Islamic values etc and thus they are NOT seedhi saadhi. But that doesn't make all of them chalako maasis. Similarly, the comparatively less open environment doesn't make girls raised in Pakistan less chalako maasi.
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i'd say more dumber and foolish - just look at past week threads
No one is seedhi saadhi/bhooli bhaali in this day and age. Larkiyan are getting smarter and wiser now.
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Sir muqawwee from england.....
address :-sadar bazar london.............:D
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when you look at the 'data' generalization is the first thing you must do
We cannot generlise girls from any of these categories (ABCD, BBCD and PBCD) as seedhi saadhi OR chalako maasi.
It all depends on the tarbiat. A girl born and raised in USA can be a seedhi saadhi and shareef and a girl born and bred in Pakistan can be chalako maasi. Basically people think that girls born and bred outside are more informed, modern, liberal, open-minded, doesn't care about desi and Islamic values etc and thus they are NOT seedhi saadhi. But that doesn't make all of them chalako maasis. Similarly, the comparatively less open environment doesn't make girls raised in Pakistan less chalako maasi.
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I think its other away around Pakistani girls are very chalak and US/UK born are just outspoken they are not street smart.
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Brother STA - mein nay aasay aasay paindu dekhay hain uk say that are completely mssed up defn of ABCDs
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second generation wale bhi....................:D
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I think ShahryarKhan and STA are more seedhi (yes, I know it’s seedhay/seedha…but I prefer to use seedhi for them 
) than any desi girl regardless of location. 
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astagfiruallah rv
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^Here lemme make it up to you by liking your post. 
(if you don’t beat me to it)
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Fear of the unknown? That’s what I would say.
I detest generalizations of any kind. I much prefer to make statements about someone’s background/upbringing after I get to know them and have proof to back it up 
Kidding aside, I love it how people are pleasently surprised after they get to know me and say “you were born and raised in America?” Like WTH is that supposed to mean? Should I be stripping down buck nekkid running through the streets with a cold one in my hand and a trail of mixed race babies behind me, dollar bills strewn about? 
Yes, I cook. Everyday. Desi Food. Yes, I can tie a sari. Yes, I am fluent in Urdu. Yes, I am religious (in a moderate way). No, I don’t drink. I didn’t sleep around prior to marriage. Anyother generalizations I missed?
And for the record, I don’t automatically assume that all my Pakistani/Indian counterparts are heavenly blessed pure angels who can do no wrong. I’ve met plenty who would put most goris to shame with their haal chaal. But again, I’m not going to make a blanket statement saying all modern “burger family” girls in Pakistan are like that.
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