yes.. i believe in the begining its kind of Ok but as the time goes by they should start sharing the ‘secrets’ with eachother… if u dont do it, that means what ‘u dont trust your spouse’??
its funny they (husbands) want you to be the ‘part of the family’ since day One whenever it comes to ‘serve’ his family/friends… but when it comes to sharing the secrets u r still being treated as an outsider for years…