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[Maham]

@pkgrl000

how involved are you with your hubby’s family problems? we share all our problems but I feel a bit awkward asking him about problems that I kinda know are happening in his mom’s, brother’s, sister’s life simply because I feel like I may be intruding or getting too personal. I know these things affect him but he still never shares them with me. In fact, most of the time when he talks to his mom/sis/etc he’ll do it outside of the house or when I’m in the washroom or kitchen or something. Is this normal? To be honest, I dont really mind that he doesn’t wanna talk to them in front of me but I don’t want to be completely alienated from his family’s life either. Do you and spouse share each and everything going on in each other’s parents and siblings’ lives? Would you want your wife to ask about and offer support when there are some sort of issues or just to leave it alone?

You need to build that comfort level with him. Do let him know that if he wants he can share his feelings, his worries with you but if he doesnt want to you had respect that too. You see it is possible that it may not be him but his family who doesnt want their worries to be disclosed to you. So it is important that your comfort level is with your husband and his family too.