im so bad at keeping secrets:oi always did get into trouble into trouble.i hate secrets there shuld be none.but i know a family who is not telling the inlaws that she does have complications i dont know exactly wat her problem is but they are just scared that if she tell her husband he wont do the ruksati, i personaly believe its his right to know
Yes you have to be honest. No doubt, but you always have to remember - HOW you say it also playes a big role.
If you just throw it as a shock, then a shock just may come back to you. I am not sure how is your relationship. you can ask them to come to the doctor for a regular checkup and discuss these issues there. Basically, find an easy way to let them know of FACTS (or potential facts).
btw, sometime too much honest it NOT a good thing :)
I understand that...but what if he is planning on having kids? What if he wants a large family and thats his dream? Dont you think he should know?
Im not trying to be harsh here but just like Khawateen said, she doesnt have to fear anyone finding out anything about her as if its something to be ashamed of.