Secrets in a Marriage

Lifestyle Relationships
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there always are secrets in life be it married life or single. Main point is that person should understand the difference between not-sharing-it and lying.

other than this, Niksik has summed it up pretty well !

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And I’m going to totally ignore you :snooty:

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Yes - anyone who says they dont are lying or have lots of arguments

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secrets? Trust should be everything but some people do hold back information because they don't what the others reaction will be.

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Whats wrong with holding back minor info? Sure, not telling your wife you have another woman & 3 other kids constitutes deception, but little secrets are no big deal

Some GS folk want to be perfect in every sense

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agree with UZ and Niksik.

I dont keep any secrets from the hubz. Its virtually impossible for me as I dont have anyone else to really talk to, so he ends up hearing everything anyways.

And my family doesnt say negative stuff about the hubz in the first place to have an issue.. so no secrets there. But, if there is something about some relative that someone has told me about, that has no relevance to my husbands life, then yeah, I dont talk about it. If i dont know the people myself, even though they may be relatives, it really is a non-issue

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bhabhi ka comment toh ignore na karo bhai saahib :@:

look at what she is admitting to :@:

/sorry bhabhi nand ka farz puura karna tha.... chuckles at planting seed of argument and runs away

:@:

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Only if U tell me who your dream hubby is ? AND does he have cute brother :@:***

So you would be ok with having information with-held ..:chai:

Speaks volumes :hehe:***

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whatever i don't tell him - its for his own good.

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like what?

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I can't tell you it's for you own good :D

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maybe we can learn from it if u share :D

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Thats true. I see girls sharing every detail of their daily routines. It would be uncomfortable, even offensive for me.

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no i can't ....but i want to.

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I like to donate things that he like to hoard :) It keeps the house cleaner.

I don't tell him about crossing state lines for a pair of shoes.

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I believe in not mixing up relationships. For example if my gf told me something, i wod not run to my fiancee and tell him that or gossip arnd. I will keep it to myself.then on the other hand if someone in my family says something abt him I wod not tell him cuz that will put a negative image in his mind. As far as I am concerned and our relationship I share each and everything wit him becuz the relation is based on Friendship more.

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lets say I know where to draw the line-what I know would tick him off I keep to myself otherwise I dont keep secrets .

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Exactly.

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interesting thread :p my hubby loves to know abt what i did today...kia gupshup lagi ghar walon se....any new gossips.. ;)
i love to share gupshup with him...but yeahhh....i agree with niksik...sumtymz u just avoid telling sumthing to prevent the negative feelings...its important :)

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I usually divulge it and it always ends up being thrown in my face and then I make him apologize fifty time for it. Still lesson unlearned!!!