Re: Second wife.
TLK... ...and u r comparing between the 'farz' and an 'option' ... that has a lots of difference too.... so your islam says keep getting married for watever reasons because their (ur wife/wives) emotions, desires, happiness means nothing to you because u r here to fulfill the so called 'sunnat'?
I did not say that at all
My islam is same as your islam ..
Islam is not a religion to fulfil personal happiness .. If I am unhappy cause my wife does Hijab then its my problem .. not hers ...
and no where I am saying that men should excersice the option of polygamy .. I am just saying that we shold be less defensive and more receptive about the fact that its part of our deen, no need to be over defensive or ashamed about admiting that