Re: second-wife
I blame both girls. First one couldnt contorl him and second one is a shmuck to begin with. I am sorry didnt mean to say it like that so bluntly. Ask your friend a question, That guy could not commit to one woman what makes her think he will commit to her forever.
Pyar shyar is good but usually that last for not that long the real love begins after shadi. When someone has no shame to hold your hand in public that you belong to them . When someone is willing to up 3 in the morning and get medicine for you. When someone is willing to take your parents crap and not say a single word back out of respect. When the guy believes his wife first before he runs off and get to any conclusions. This is real love.
saying " i love you" 50 billion times isnt enough. I always challenge people ask that person to show you that they love you..... getting greeting cards, flowers, chocolate for valentine etc isnt enough.... whats the point of that happiness that will only last for few months or may be few years but will end at one point.
People say a lot of things but action speak louder than words
Tumhari dost bohot se logo ki gunah gar hai. First that other woman, i am sure she doesnt think of your friend in good way. Those kids that this guy probably have from the first wife. Your friend took away someone's husband and father as well. Yeah may be that guy will be there for his kids from the first wife but he will only be there for few days and rest of the days he wont. Parenting is needed 24/7 to raise decent kids in the society. Your friend's parents, they are compeletely ashamed of her as you mentioned. bap ko naraz karna kuda ko naraz karna hai aur mah ke pao ke neeche to jannat hoti hai. She will always have a label of the "other woman" i am sure when her kids will grow up and ask their mom. They would knwo that their mother is the "other woman". its not such a good title to have.
last but not least
mah aur bap ki duaein ke kilaaf koi bhi kaam kya jaye its not right.
pyar andha hota hai .... *sigh