i have this really nice friend of mine, she got divorced after a year or so of her marriage, has one son.. who is now 3 yrs old…she is 30 now
she is really pretty and is very sweet… everyone who meets her comments on how nice she is
well , now there is this rishta for her … the guy is divorced and has a son too… he seems like a nice and decent person.. me and our other friends want her to move on with her life but she is too scared and apprehensive to take the step…basically for her child…
what could be the implications of the second marriage for his son etc…
can anyone give me any second marriage success stories… or otherwise experiences???
can stepdads be good parents for their stepchildren?
what to expect? any advice would be welcome
My cousin got divorced a year after his marriage. He got married 3 years later and is leading a good married life. He has 4 kids now.
He didn't have kids from his first marriage, so it was not complicated.
Two of my uncles (mum's brothers) had second marriages and both are doing really well mA.. both their wives were previously married as well.. in the first ex there were no kids but they have 2 now and in the second he had 1 son and she had 2 sons.. they also had a baby daughter together last year..
I know two ladies in my village back home. Both were divorced a year or two after their marriage and both had a daughter each.
Lady A did not get married for the second time because of her daughter, its been over 20 years now and both daughter and mother are not living in good condition.
Lady B initially resisted the idea of second marriage but later married. She now has 2 more children from her second husband and is living good life in her new house. The daughter from her first marriage is also living with her.
So, I'm always in favour of moving on and getting married for the second time, its better to take a risk for a good, normal and healthy life.
Could be a coincidence but the people I know who decided to marry again seem happier than those who chose not to marry again for the sake of their kid..
My cousin got divorced after 5 years of her abusive marriage. Had two kids. She was strong, moved on despite of all the horror she dealt with. She started working. Started taking care of herself. Found a guy who was never married before. They got married and have a son together. Not only does the guy loves my cousin's two previous kids, he also took responsibility of my cousin's mom (my aunt). They all live together.
One of my older cousins was married for 20 years (2 kids, an 18 year old daughter and a 12 year son,) and finally asked for a divorce. The kids supported her and the daughter is with her dadi and the mom remarried and had her son. Her now husband was never before married. They are very happy.
One of my older cousins was married for 20 years (2 kids, an 18 year old daughter and a 12 year son,) and finally asked for a divorce. The kids supported her and the daughter is with her dadi and the mom remarried and had her son. Her now husband was never before married. They are very happy.
18 year old daughter? how old was mom when she got remarried? I'm happy that she found happiness.I don't know why but I never thought desi men would be open minded enough to marry a divorced woman with kids. Except for a cousin of mine but he was raised in the western world influenced by western values. Although, my cousin's wife never mentioned she had a child until after he got to know her and fell in love with her, after she told him, he was too much in love with her to hate her for keeping that huge part of her life from him. They are still married with children of their own so I do love him for doing what he did.
