Re: Scratching my head..
I’m not ticked off, but I am curious. You have the right to your preferences…you can even marry four 20-year-olds. But what are your reasons?
Is it because a considerably younger girl will be more attractive? Is it because you want someone more fertile? Is it because you think that a younger girl won’t have as much emotional baggage from past relationships…that she’d be more “pure”??? Is it because you think that they’re easier to mold or that they adjust better than older women? Is it because that youtfhulness keeps things more alive in a marriage? Do you think that girls that age are more “youthful” or have a naievte or innocence that you find charming? I’m not mocking you…some people do find such qualities attractive. Is it all of the above?
Also, I know that some girls prefer to marry a guy who is much older than them…that’s what they are attracted to. Now in the case of an arranged marriage…what if your young wife is secretly attracted to guys closer to her age? Have you thought of that possibility and would it bother you?