Re: scared to go to pakistan
If you say that your mil is a drama queen and that you don’t trust her, then why would you give her money to buy you clothes? As a precaution…just to be on the safe side…I wouldn’t do that.
You don’t have to “interfere” in sil’s shopping. But as a courtesy, ask her if she needs help. If she wants you to go go shopping with her…then go with her. Give her money to buy things of her own choice as opposed to buying gifts that she may rant about later on. So, I really don’t know what khaas mashwarah or advice you’re looking for that you can’t already figure out for yourself. You just pick and choose your battles as opposed to arguing about everything and maintain your ibadat, recite your protective adhkaar and make dua for protection regularly and inshaAllah eveything’ll be fine.