Re: scared to go to pakistan
I apologize. The stories in Life 1 can blur sometimes. That’s why I edited my post before your response. I still think that the suggestions are applicable. I don’t know what issues you have exactly with your mil…but people set themselves up to get hurt when they have expectations of others. Just don’t expect anything from your MIL in terms of material things such as gifts and clothes and money…don’t expect anything in terms of hospitality…don’t even expect her to keep you updated about the wedding plans cuz she may not do it and then she may blame you for not being interested. So, you’ll have to take the initiative and show an interest (in your husband’s presence) in the wedding…so that he witnesses you being proactive and thus it helps in refuting MIl’s accusations should she play that game later on. But as I said earlier …in my last post…there are suggestions that would apply to your situation.