You have very realistic fears. The first year of marriage is usually the hardest
I've heard that alot, and I think in my situation it's true (or at least i hope it stays true inshallah).... i remember i went through a few difficult patches, it was nothing serious but just trying to get used to the way things ran there, knowing his habits and all..we get along better these days than way back then... i guess u cud say it gets better and better.. :D