LOL heyyyyy firenze thanks for that reassurance! I feel so much at ease now, jeez, i never even thought of those ones, how did that slip my mind! BLAHHHH! And no, i dont remember any of those stories in the newspapers, thank god, or my fears would be to another magnitude.
Shaadi toh karni hai? My fiance would agree. If it were up to me, i'd stay fiance's forever! I mean, isnt it just wonderful guys??? We are in love, you are at ur home, i am at mine, the end.
Ever wondered why divorce rates are so high? They will be bf/gf for agesss and have a fine relationship, but as soon as they get married...BAM! Its a divorce! Fears? Phobia's? Got their hands cut off???
Shaadi toh karni hai? My fiance would agree. If it were up to me, i'd stay fiance's forever! I mean, isnt it just wonderful guys??? We are in love, you are at ur home, i am at mine, the end.
Ever wondered why divorce rates are so high? They will be bf/gf for agesss and have a fine relationship, but as soon as they get married...BAM! Its a divorce! Fears? Phobia's? Got their hands cut off???
I totally understand what you're going through! I started freaking out like 5 months before I got married. I would start crying and be really really sad. I can tell you from experience that you will get over it and you will get used to your new home and family. Now when I go over to my parents house I miss my bedroom and bathroom and I can't wait to get home (my new home).
Every girl goes through it. The first two nights were hard for me but then I got used to it. One piece of advice I have is that it makes it a million times easier if you are working b/c you're so busy that you don't have time to think about missing home. I still love being my old home and that's where I feel most comfortable, but I've gotten so used to my new life that I don't get homesick anymore. No matter how understanding a hubby is, he will never understand. Whenever I would get homesick my hubby would think I didn't like living with him and his family lol.
Really? Working makes it easier? I told him I dont want to work. I think this is actually another worry of mine. In my fam ladies dont really work, i mean I have worked, but nothing to the point as a life long career or anything. On the other hand, his mom works - full time. She wont be home with me after we are married, ill be alone. The fear of that lonliness may be getting to me? I dont know what to expect bc of that..and plus since i dont want to work.
Work? Not work? Work? Not work? Work? Not work?
Any input on this one?
^Well you don't have to work if you don't want to. Just do something that will keep you busy instead of sitting idle at home. You will feel more lonely and homesick that way. You can go volunteer somewhere, spend a few days a week teaching at a masjid or something like that.
Yeah Maya your right, doing something will def help. Masjid is a good idea. Keeping myself busy will keep my mind off of things back at home as a newcomer to their family.
Soni, apparently im not the only one whose going through this.