Re: saying 'i love u' not to berak someones heart?
Its hard to make a judgment on the matter without knowing how she truly feels. Skipping from one guy to the next is never a good idea because shes not giving time to herself.
For a person to be able to move on from a relationship, i believe they need to clear their head. Her inability to say 'no' to the guy may confuse her further and its not the best way to move on.
That could be one way to look at the situation another way is that Mr G. may be the helping hand for her to move on and settle down in life.
Its a situation whereby both persons feelings need to be assessed.
Personally i dont think she did anything wrong since Mr G. is happy with the decision and so is she, but instead of moving into a full blown relationship they should calm things down and take things very slowly so her mind clears up and she knows herself whether she is able to fulfil her obligations towards the commitment she made with Mr G.
Mr G should also keep a slight distance an be understanding to the fact that her feelings and emotions are fragile right now and any decisions as such should not be made hastily because it could transpire to be something unexpected.