say NO!

can u say no easily??

i cant :bummer:

even if i wanna say get the hell outta my face. still i ends up sayign yes or saying ok i’ll see and bla bla :bummer:

can u say NOOO??

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There definitely are much better ways to say no. A little diplomatic skills can work wonders.

For me, it really depends who I am talking to. If there is someone who I find annoying or dont personally like that person, I normally go ahead with a no to their face - which definitely makes me less popular - but keeps things much simpler.

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diplomatic skills such as??:hmmm: when i try to be nice and reason with others i end up sayign yes always :smack:

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I find it so hard to say no. I don’t know why I have this in-built guilt system which does not allow me to say no and if I do, I begin feeling guilty and attempt to turn it into a yes:smack:

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KB - for starters, never say **always **:smack:

DDR - Ah I didn’t know that about you :blush:

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larkiyoon ki tarah shaarmaa kyun rahey ho?! :cb:

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^ See what you do to me? :blush: :blush:

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i have a prob saying no too :( speciaLLy to sumone cl;ose to mee!!!

same here:bummer: i feel soo giulty if i say no

I make you blush like a girl?!:blush:

KB- I don’t know any other way. I think I was programmed this way. People run rings around me because they know I can’t say no:bummer:

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Do you women realize its a part of the reason why people use you? :hmmm:

DDR - yea, not only that, you sometimes make me scream like a little girl :blush:

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ermmmmmmmmmmm

And how do I manage that?!

Yeah I do realised that, yet still it is a vicious cycle:bummer:

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DDR - nevermind, it was just a spontaneous outburst of emotions.

:omg:

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Is that what you call it?!:rotfl:

Those who can’t say no, gets hurt alot and people do misuse them often! Since they care others more than themselves and hence loses a lot in own life … but on the other hand GOD love them more than those who live on the expense of others!

I am also a similar victim , but don’t want to change maself, I love the way it is … :hehe:

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well it depends on the situation...

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yes

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im learning:faizy: u have to sometimes:D

yeah but god wont love u if sum1 asked u to kill sum1 and u did :hehe:

teach me too :bummer: