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You wanted to find out this man’s age but you don’t know him that well. He has helped you and you have talked to him a few times but nothing personal. What would you do?

I honestly don’t know what I would do and I am the kind of person who absolutely hates getting personal if I don’t know the other that well. Or for that matter, trying to get personal, I get embarassed :frowning:

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Just ask

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steal his wallet, sneak at his liscence and then say ooh i think you dropped it.
or
just turn up and say my gosh you are ancient.

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hmmm id just wait... i can never steer a conversation to such questions.. i personally find it embarassing b/c he could feel that ure fishin for info and that means that ure thinking/ judging or watever-ing him.. some guys are serious jerks so i wouldnt risk it... :S i mean it's upto u.. do u want him to know that he's (or his age is )under ur skin........ ?

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Has he ever asked you for your age? did you tell him?

If you did and he did.....then just ask him how old he is....not that difficult

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Sheesh stop being so darpook and just ask !!

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Ramsha: If only it was that easy. :frowning:

Croquet: Good thinking, but that would only get me in trouble.

bhenjee: That is the whole point. I don’t want him thinking, why do I want to know his age or other silly thoughts. :bummer:

sweet.i.f: No, he’s a gentleman he never asked my age, I doubt he ever will.

Mrs. Saieen: :frowning: I want to, but I can’t.

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just ask him, so how old are you?..iand if he gets any ideas like “oh maybe she likes me” is it really meant to mean that your asking soemones age just because u like them? no!

so just ask him…theres nothing to lose…ur only asking his age :smack:

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Dayummm that’s too much mind games and playing and sht! Whatever happened to guys are simple creatures :hinna:

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forget all about the person and his age :)

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sweet.i.f: Actually, if I dare ask that, he might never talk to me :bummer:.

Mrs. Saieen: Yea, I think now a days men ask for too much work :(.

Iraj: I would do that, but he lives in the same town as I so eventhough I don’t want to, I run into him now and then and then I get all depressed.

So complicated.

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well if he really is the kind of guy who is going to get super upset at something trivial like you asking his age, do you really think he's worth hanging out?

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If you're uncomfortable asking about his age, ask him where he finished his school and when did he graduate...That should give you a pretty good idea of what his age is without asking such a direct/personal question,.

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great tip :) Just go for it

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Hmmm...

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what i was gna say

great minds :whistling:

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ask him which year his parents got married... that should give u an idea...

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he'll just think she is weird for asking about his parents lol

also....what if they had him very late and/or he isnt the first born.

I would just ask him straight out....."how old are u"

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How can I ask him his age when I don’t know him that way? It’s odd and it would be personal and I am sure he would get suspicious as to why I would ask such a question.

I think I will have to just forget about it. :teary2:

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why do you want to know his age?