just trying to translate here, but I think what SanaZaidi meant is that you shouldn’t be angry since the dress wasn’t made for you and you don’t have to wear it, not that you were not able wear it.
I havent seen the original, but the general consensus is her dress is still beautiful so I dont know that her decision had bad results. And to be honest, I wore chiffon joras to two of my main wedding events, and I regret not having them made in raw silk the way this girl did. Chiffon joras LOOK beautiful so I’m sure the original is prettier like you said, but chiffon just pulls so dang easily and it makes me sort of sad that those two joras of mine definitely won’t stand the test of time, especially since so many girls now re-use or re-vamp their mothers joras.