salary to parents

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@Reha

I think what Orphy meant was simply that it seems a grown man should be able to manage his own money. He is an adult and doesnt need his parents to give him an allowance anymore. Part of being an adult is being able to manage finances well.

While this may be okay when someone isnt married, it will cause problems when he gets married. The problems wont be because his wife is being unreasonable…she isnt. They will occur when the couple has to plan for things like a home, children, savings, retirement, etc. A single person who only has to worry about himself is not a big deal. But a family that depends on him will suffer because their needs will grow and no one likes to ask for money they are entitled to in the first place.

I think this guy needs to start getting his parents used to him managing his salary. It doesnt need to be where he is giving them money either. These days, you can get your salary deposited into two or three different accounts automatically. He can have a set amount that just goes into their account without them having to ask.

He needs to grow up.

yep i agree with every word. i find it very strange that a grown man would give his entire salary to his parents and then be given a certain amount back from that… obviously he should provide for his parents and help them financially but the salary should go straight to him and then he can transfer a set amount to his parents each month rather than the other way around which just makes him look a little kid getting pocket money every month.