Salaami/Wedding gifts

Re: Salaami/Wedding gifts

according to my mom..... money given to bride and groom belong to bride and groom...... and if someone gives money to parents of the bride...... then that money belongs to parents... and it is their choice what to do.... weather to give it to the couple.... or pay off any loan.... it is for their use..

when my parents got married... my tai ammi took all the money... even the ones given to my parents personally........ she did that to all her devers...... (too bad) ........ funnyly she couldn't do that to her bahu and son...... lolzz