Oh and question No. 2 .... the bride's side has given joraas to all of us, the immediate family members so are we supposed to do the same and give joraas to the bride's side? Is that the norm or does only the bride's side give joraas and we just do the baree thing?
Well it would obviously be very kind of you to give them gifts too. After all, the larki walay always load the guys side up with gifts (gold, perfumes, clothes, etc.), but I guess it depends on your family.
It really irks the hell out of me when the larkay walay don't give a damn thing to the girl's family yet have no problem accepting all these gifts cause they believe that's their 'right'. Like at least appreciate it and be grateful for what you received if you aren't going to give anything to them in return.
I have a question ... how much salami does the groom usually receive from his in-laws?