Sajna hai mujhey, Sajna ke leye

Lifestyle Relationships
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The theme and erotology is common in our culture among unmarried folks.

After nuptial knot has been washed in luandry for some years, then Sajna loses appetite and sajna clings only to parties, get together and public appearance.

What is a reciepe for keeping Sajnas abreast for many years and decades ?

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Re: Sajna hai mujhey, Sajna ke leye

get sajna some afeem.

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**note the change in her tone and level of love that is displayed:

first week after marriage: darling uThiye na plz subHo ho gaii...sooraj sar pe aayaa
first 6 months after marriage: darling uTheN bas ab plz...subHo hone ko aayii
first year after marriage: suneN, uTheN ab der ho rahi hai...aadhaa din nikal aayaa
after first baby is born [after marriage, hehe]: OMG, abhi tak so rahe ho...chalo after the second baby is born CODE RED: *uTho...saaraa din sote rahte ho
chal uTh nikamme...khabardar jo soye ab to...fajar kii azaan ho gaii abhii tak paRe paRe soye huye ho...kaam ke na kaaj ke sau man anaaj ke ... lol*

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Time changes everything. You can't act like newly married when you are not but that doesnt mean the love has vanised, infact i would hope with time love only gets deeper hence maybe less need of being all decked up to get each other's attention. However at the same time i don't like when either the guy or the girl gives up totally on their looks/dressing as if they were doing all that before only to get married.

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bilkul sahi batya....hum boys 50 saal k ku naa ho jaye..kabhi hurt nahi karte...aur yeh larkiya 30 hi hoti nahi shuru ho jati hai..bla bla bla

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:rotfl:

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This is strange awakening for me that Pakistani women get dressed in order to appease other women :confused:

They dont give much weightage to a man’s opinion about what looks good on them.

This is sooo strange :hmmm:

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Re: Sajna hai mujhey, Sajna ke leye

Its unrealistic and movie-like to be all dressed up at home all the time. On the other hand, after years of marriage you are use to of seeing the other in their best and in their worst . So, it really does not make a huge difference if one day out of the blue the partner decided to dress up. Special events and occasions is a different thing however everyday life its pointless. Plus, after living together for so many years you would still love your significant other even in PJs and with no makeup because its not about the external appearance anymore.

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I don't think men would wake-up on a Sunday shower/shave and wear formal clothes either for women either. Yes, be groomed at all times..but love your partner when she's dressed-up and love her the same when she's in raggedy pj's smeared with atta!

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I am not talking about homely attire. I have no big problem with that.

I am talking about when you get dressed for some party or occasion, you (women) usually give preference to

  1. a style
  2. Outfit
  3. Matching

Which other women appreciate/ approve as more in current fashion.

This is a fact.

For instance, If a guy like a 5 year old dress never worn much, which looks good on you, honestly. You would outright reject his idea and throw it in dust bin just because it is out of fashion.... as per your and other girl's perception

No Sajna for Sajna ... and Sajna goes for a ride. :(

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when i saw the title of this thread i was actually listening to this song... like NOOO joke haha .. and i was like whow , whats wrong with my eyes today?... anyhow YOUR CREEEPEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD THE HECKKK OUTA MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.. lol this is one of ma fav song... hehe.

Yea i know my reply is totaly different from the topic .. lol hahha